Soulmates

Daily writing prompt
Do you believe in soulmates? Why or why not?

I’ve been married for 33 years and no, I don’t believe in soulmates. I don’t think there’s just one person out there for everyone. I think you could make things works with a number of different people.

My feeling in any relationship was always that if the good outweighs the bad, you should stay. If the bad outweighs the good, you’d be better off on your own. (I guess I’m a pragmatist, rather than a romantic.)

I think the concept of “soulmates” assumes someone else can or should “make you happy.” In reality, only you can make yourself happy. You are responsible for your own happiness.

Wedding photo in a cool frame made by an artist friend.

3 thoughts on “Soulmates

  1. Beautiful, beautiful photo, Mary. Such life! I mostly agree with you, but I do think sometimes we get some kind of cosmic nudge. hehe

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