Soulmates

Daily writing prompt
Do you believe in soulmates? Why or why not?

I’ve been married for 33 years and no, I don’t believe in soulmates. I don’t think there’s just one person out there for everyone. I think you could make things work with a number of different people.

My feeling in any relationship was always that if the good outweighs the bad, you should stay. If the bad outweighs the good, you’d be better off on your own. (I guess I’m a pragmatist, rather than a romantic.)

I think the concept of “soulmates” assumes someone else can or should “make you happy.” In reality, only you can make yourself happy. You are responsible for your own happiness.

Wedding photo in a cool frame made by an artist friend

Pragmatist

Daily writing prompt
Do you believe in fate/destiny?

Honestly, no. And I don’t believe in “soulmates” either. (I don’t think there’s just one person for each us.)

We have free will. And choices. And circumstances. And plain old luck – good and bad.

I guess I’m not a romantic. I’m more of a pragmatic pragmatist.

Rose Reflected, one of my drawings from college

Drawing