What’s a chapter of your life you’d title “The Hard Years” — and what got you through it?
Not to bring up politics AGAIN, but I think the period from Hillary Clinton losing the presidential election (despite winning the popular vote by 2.8M), through Trump’s total mishandling of the COVID pandemic (and the subsequent cancellation of my son’s senior spring of high school), to today’s completely surreal dismantling of the post-WW2 order and the subversion of everything I believed my country stood for, under a wildly corrupt wannabe dictator and sexual predator, has been fucking hard.
Hard to watch
Hard to believe
Hard to afford
And it ain’t over yet…
I’m definitely angrier, sadder, and a bit meaner than I was in 2016.

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I like your silly pantsuit!
As for the times we’re living through, though I have more anxiety, I try to live by the credo: “Don’t let the bastards grind you down!”
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Thanks Annie! 👍
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I also do A LOT of deep breathing!!
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That must be how you are able to ingest as much news as you do! 🧘♀️
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If I lived there, I’m sure I’d feel exactly the same as you do Mary. I mean, even from up here it’s crazy and frightening and beyond ridiculous but at least I can take a step back from it. I cannot wait for the day that he crawls back into the ugly hole he came out of, and we never have to see his face again!
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That’ll be a DAY, won’t it? In the meantime, they’re naming all kinds of things after him, including an actual airport yesterday 🤮
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Ewww seriously??? 😩😩😩😩🤬🤬🤬🤬
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Yup, West Palm Beach (PBI) is now “DJT”🤮
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