I rewatched the first three seasons of Sex and the City while on my treadmill this winter. (The conclusion of the reboot—And Just Like That—prompted me to go back and relive some of the original.)
Now that treadmill season is thankfully over (we can walk outside here now), here are my random observations on the old show:
The women never ever reference their mothers. It’s like they didn’t have mothers.
Donald Trump is mentioned in the very first episode (which originally aired in 1998) and I decided to carry on rewatching it anyways.
Carrie had a zen teacher. (I had a zen teacher.)
Carrie and Charlotte did partner yoga. (I tried partner yoga once in the 90s and hated it. It put me off all yoga for years.)
When the women go to Connecticut for a baby shower, suburbia is like an uncomfortable foreign land to them with baffling things like “Invisible Fence.” (That one made me laugh, because we got both a dog and an Invisible Fence when we left the city.)
There was reference to having baby names picked out before you were even married or pregnant and “reserving” them with your friends. This was funny because I specifically remember my friend Gail reserving “Justine” when we were teenagers. Also, my friend Susan and I were pregnant at the same time and had a negotiation over the name “Henry” which we both liked. I “gave” it to her because it was her deceased father’s name. (It was also my deceased maternal grandfather’s name, so my son got it for his middle name.) For some reason, it was very important for GenX friends to not give their babies the same names.
There were pre-plane crash references to JFK Jr and Carolyn Bessette, which was interesting because I’m pretty sure Sarah Jessica Parker dated JFK Jr at one point, although I don’t think that was mentioned in Love Story.
That feeling of taking pregnancy tests when you didn’t want to be pregnant—remember that?
Palm Pilots – such a big deal at the time
Smoking cigarettes – aaah
And when the worst thing about Rudy Giuliani was that he cracked down on smoking in NYC…
The guest stars:
Bradley Cooper (played a single, straight smoker)
Will Arnette
Jon Bonjovi
Alanis Morrisette
Vince Vaughn (adorable)
Matthew McConaughy (still no)
Hugh Hefner (soooo creepy, but so mainstream and acceptable in the 90s)
Carrie Fisher (RIP Carrie. Loved her.)
There was definitely some dated and cringy stuff, especially around socio-economic class. But let’s face it, all of that inequality has just gotten worse.
Maybe I’ll go back and watch seasons 4-6 next winter. Or maybe not.
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I used to love that show! Not sure how well it would hold up today though.
If I remember correctly the only time mothers are mentioned is when Miranda’s dies. A rather poignant funeral episode…?
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Oh really? I don’t remember that. It was probably in one of the later seasons. I wonder how Miranda felt about her mother. I might have to search for that episode. Thanks.
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I think their relationship was troubled. It’s more about the friendship of the girls and being there for each other… but it’s the only time I even remember a mother being mentioned.
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Yeah, that tracks. Not one of them ever called their mother for advice!
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Well, there was Trey’s mother Bunny.
She was always helpful.
🥴
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Oh true. A real country club relic! And actually, Big’s mother makes an appearance as well. So, mother-in-laws were less of a buzzkill than mothers to the writers I guess.
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I have never seen an episode but always wondered if I would like it, I might give it a try next winter!
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Worth a try – as a zeitgeist time capsule anyway
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Zeitgeist i had to google that lol
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It’s a good word, right?
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