More and more churches are offering a “Blue Christmas” service for people struggling during the holiday season. The holidays aren’t the easiest time for everyone, and there are many possible reasons why people might be feeling “blue” during the holidays. Grief is a big one.
My Unitarian Universalist church offered a Blue Christmas service on Tuesday. It was offered both in-person and on Zoom, which is so nice for our elderly and/or homebound members.
I’m not feeling particularly blue this year, so I didn’t go, but it’s good to know that these mixed feelings about the holidays are acknowledged and supported by my community. I’m sure some year I will want to go. The blues come for everyone.
My thoughts are with one particular friend who is missing her late, loving husband so terribly this season. 💙

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That’s good they do that.
I love your Christmas tree.
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Thank you Liz. 💙
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Thanks Mary — a great reminder that we’re all carrying our own hidden burdens.
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So true Brian.
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A nice idea….
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It is 💙
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I’ve never heard of a blue Christmas. Hearing the explanation, it really makes sense. I’m glad there are churches like yours that recognize the need. We all go through a blue period in our lives and need a little support.
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Very true. And the holidays are just really hard to get through when you’re sad.
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This is new to me, Mary, but seems like a great way to care for people who need extra support around the holidays. Your tree is beautiful and I love the bay windows.
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Thank you Susan. The tree just happened to look very blue last night.
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Stunning tree, and important idea. So wonderful your congregation does this. ❤
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Thank you Stephanie!
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💙 Mary
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