What principles define how you live?
I think I’m more pragmatic than highly principled. I want to live in a peaceful world, where everyone gets along, and basic needs are met for all. I believe in democracy and capitalism within reason. I believe the government should provide basic services, including education, and should get involved in regulating and overseeing private industry to protect us and our environment. I believe there are certain things that only government can do, like protect our civil rights and bodily autonomy, including protecting us from gun violence.
I believe it is an individual’s responsibility to act in a way that contributes to society and if possible, don’t burden others. Work, pay your taxes, raise decent children, exercise, floss, and for goodness sake’s VOTE, even when it’s a real pain in the ass. Like tonight.
Massachusetts towns have this crazy form of local government called Town Meeting. It’s incredibly time consuming as people can stand up and pontificate ad nauseum on anything from a new firetruck to a new bylaw regulating backyard chickens.
Tonight there’s a zoning question around guns. Pro second amendment people will pack the meeting, as will parents and others who want to limit the number of firearms businesses in town. I’d rather stay home and watch Hotel Portofino on Masterpiece, but I will go to Town Meeting. Because you gotta do your part.


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The Town Meeting format sounds interesting. I imagine it can be challenging and time consuming. But it’s been around forever so it must work?
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It’s really tough on busy working parents. It’s so loooong. Typically there’s one moderator and a lot depends on how good they are at their (unpaid) job. I once attended a contentious town meeting where an individual had a heart attack and died just after finishing an impassioned speech. The fire chief jumped up and gave him CPR. The moderator chose to continue the meeting! Very New England/Yankee to persevere no matter what damn thing happens (or how late it gets)
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Wow. I’m wondering if I’d have the patience to attend all of the town halls. The heart attack meeting must have been a shocker. But to continue on… surprising!
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Town “halls” are very different than Town Meeting. I only go to TM when it’s going to be a close vote on something that matters to me.
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