I’m not usually one to post internet wisdom, but given a recent event in my life, I went looking for some.

I liked this:

My blog is called “50 Happens” because I started it when I turned 50. Looking back at my posts, I see that one of my big realizations in my 50s was that all the little moments along the way are what actually matter. It’s about the journey, not the destination.

I’m lucky in that I’m not one of those women who has a hard time sticking up for herself. I can express myself, even if it leads to conflicts with others. I can be a bit righteous. I know that.

But now that I’m 60, I see clearly that time is limited. I’m truly not interested in any type of unnecessary drama. There’s too much real drama in life and in the world to contend with.

I believe I owe others:

Basic civility/politeness

Non-cruelty

Honesty about boundaries

I believe I deserve:

Happiness

Peace