Sometimes when you set a boundary and choose to protect your peace, you learn that someone doesn’t care for you the way you thought they did.
This is hard.
To be honest, I was not expecting to be starting 2026 dealing with this particular type of grief/heartache, but here we are. Life is what happens while you’re busy making other plans.

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